"I Am Not As Strong As You Are"

I hear this a lot from various people through the years. I mean, really? What makes someone stronger then the next? Does going through life, having so much shit happen to you, being raised in a broken family, and having your family and life crap make a person that much stronger then the next? I think it is will power. I think if a person can work their shit out, know what they want, and work towards it, anyone can be just as strong. It takes a hell of a lot of work, I know that from personal experience but it can happen. It is the will power behind it. Could someone saying they aren’t strong enough to do what they need to do to make themselves better or to achieve what they want to achieve a cop out? Maybe it isn’t. Maybe that is just the way some people are and there is nothing that you can do about it. Some people can make it to the pros and some can’t. Some people can draw better than others. Does this mean the same for will power and emotions?

Woman Fell In Front Of Train

This is why intoxication and train stations don't mix. Whatever the problem was, bad idea.

Amazing Weekend With Special People

This past weekend some very special people headed over to my place. I started seeing someone recently and her and her son made their way out to stay with me for the weekend. We tried something new (well new to me), a hibachi restaurant called Shinto’s. Talk about a cool experience. Saturday we hit Chuck E Cheese, did a ghost walk and she took me out to the mall on Sunday. Well that right there tells you I am crazy about her since shopping is not really my thing. J even talked me into getting some new jeans. I think mine are fine but I have lost some weight (more then I realized apparently) so got some that better fit. I got away from wearing baggy jeans months ago but the new jeans I got became baggy too. They look good, I will take them. Now the talk is new shoes. HHMM shoe shopping is also not high on my list, but aim to please. The other discussion was black or white socks. I only wear black socks but that is what I like. I don’t like to wear anything white actually. She insists white socks with shorts. I had a facebook thing going and most people on their thought white socks. What does the blogger world think? Anything wrong with wearing black socks?

What Will My Son Come Up With Next?

Sorry my blog hasn’t been exciting lately. Really not much in life I can say that has been going on. It is always crazy. If it wasn’t it wouldn’t be my life. The work week is always the usual. The news is full of the flu and then you have the Browns getting rid of their general manager. Talk about a shocker there (yes that was pure sarcasm). The talk on the radio was wanting Bernie Kosar as the general manager. Wow, is that wishful thinking. For those who don’t know, Bernie Kosar was the quarter back for the Browns years ago. I have to say he was probably one of the best ones the Browns have had and can’t say we have had any as good as him since. He hit is rough patch towards the end of his years when it was more than proven he should retire. Let see if the Browns will bring him in.

Then you got my son. Yes my son has his own unique way of thinking. He climbs into my bed this morning like he does some mornings, nothing unusual about that. He falls asleep and I go back to sleep. The alarm goes off and I get up, look over to wake him up and he is wearing nothing but his underwear. Now I know he was in PJs when I put him in his bed last night. So I asked him what he was doing nearly naked. He said he woke up early and got half way ready for school. He went to the bathroom, brushed his teeth, and then took his clothes off. Then he figured all he had to do is eat and get dressed and he was ready for school. Half the work done. Ummmmmm ok. I asked him, aren’t you freezing? Nope, he insisted he was fine and went out to the dining room ate breakfast and then proceeded to get dressed. I am in a t-shirt, sweatshirt over that and PJ pants and I am cold. So yeah my kid is strange, but coming from me, that is to be expected. Let’s see what other interesting idea he comes up with next.

Spaghetti

For several years, a man was having an affair with an Italian woman.
One night, she confided in him that she was pregnant.
Not wanting to ruin his reputation or his marriage, he paid her a large
sum of money if she would go to Italy to secretly have the child.
Also if she stayed in Italy to raise the child, he would also provide
child support until the child turned 18. She agreed, but asked how he would know when the baby was born. To keep it discrete, he told her to simply mail him a post card, and write 'Spaghetti' on the back. He would then arrange for the Child Support Payments to begin.

One day, about 9 months later, he came home to his confused wife.
'Honey, 'she said, 'You received a very strange post card today.'
'Oh, just give it to me and I'll explain it later,' he said.

The wife obeyed and watched as her husband read the card, turned white,
and fainted.

On the card was written:




Spaghetti, Spaghetti, Spaghetti, Spaghetti, Spaghetti.

Three with meatballs, two without.

Send extra sauce

Tarot Card Readings, Who Knew.....

Many of my return bloggers and Refocksa bitches know that I am part of a ghost group and sense and see ghosts. But not sure if many know of something else I can do. To be honest, I am not even sure some of my friends know this. I have been learning over time to read tarot cards. My memorization skills are not the best in the world. But time and patience I was able to learn the cards and then take what I learned and using my sensitive side can now read cards. There is defiantly something to it with finding the right cards. I have 3 decks at home and only one really work for me. My first read was on my mom. Now with my mom and I having such a close bond, that was a easy test for me and to me, not a true test. I am right on with my mom every time with things she didn’t even expect. But that is just too easy with our connection. So I tested it on a few other people. Some I didn’t really know at all. With that, did really well and got more confidence in what I can do. I am more of a one on one reader. I was over on Camlin’s blog seeing her talk about readings over the internet. Awesome for her but not something I would trust myself doing. I have been able to pick things up over the phone pretty well but I would say as far as long distance that is as far as I will go. A bunch of my mom’s friends want a reading done after the holidays so that will be my next few readings I will do. Who knows, maybe over time I will take this further.

A Fun Halloween Weekend!

What an amazing weekend! Friday’s radio show went really well. Had many people give feed back and say they loved it and some even said better then last year. We had a lot of fun talking with Scott and Jeff on WNXC. Thanks to them for having us on! The Hale Farm event went really well too. Thanks to the powers that be, the weather was PERFECT!! It was warm out, clear and starry night. We were walking around in our group t-shirts and no one was freezing. I had several people who said they loved the presentation and tour including employees. We had so much fun doing it and meeting new people. They liked what we did so much, we have been invited back next year and plan on extending it out to a couple days. So we are excited about that. The ghost walk also went well. Unfortunately, much colder then the night before but we still had a lot of fun! I haven’t had a chance to listen to the recordings yet but will let everyone know if I get anything.

I took S out trick or treating Saturday night. We walked with his best friend’s dad and grandma and watched them go. Above is a picture of me and S in our costumes. I was able to get fangs that I can use over and over again and actually stay in like dentures with no problems. They were a bit more expensive but proved to be worth the cost. I hope everyone enjoyed their Halloween!!